Frequently Asked Questions

What is 'Domestic Abuse'? ‘Any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse (psychological, physical, sexual, financial or emotional) between adults who are or have been intimate partners or family members, regardless of gender or sexuality.’

An adult is defined as any person aged 18 years and over and family members are defined as mother, father, son, daughter, brother, sister and grandparents, whether directly related, in-laws or step family. The definition has been widened to incorporate violence by family members as well as between adults who are, or were, intimate partners.

What can I do if it is happening to me?

In the short term, emergency measures can be planned. Talk to a neighbour you trust. Arrange a signal, and ask them to call the police if they hear a disturbance. In the longer term, you will need to think about how or what you can do to alter your situation.

Remember that abuse is a crime and can be dealt with through the police and courts. Violent attacks can be reported to the police, who can help you.

In addition there are organisations, which can offer support and practical advice. Their services are confidential, and in many cases, completely free. Useful numbers are available in the 'Directory' section of this website.

What can I do if I think it is happening to a friend?

For people suffering domestic abuse, the support of a trusted friend can be invaluable. It is important that the person knows you believe them and that they are not alone.

Try not to judge or blame either party. Encourage your friend to contact one of the agencies who can help. If you witness an assault, do not intervene physically. Remember that violence in a home is a crime and the Police do have powers to act.

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